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Churchville, MD – What does an NFL running back, a college football coach, a high school football coach and a former collegiate player have in common?

“We have a connection as far as being on the football field, just being a part of a great group of guys that love to play sports,” said Ravens running back, Willis McGahee.

Joe Sclafani is a former football player and Ravens fan. In 2009 the c5-c6 disc in his back bulged and compressed his spinal cord. The pressure from the bulging disk along with an infectious abscess left Joe a quadriplegic. Bills started to mount and for Joe, his wife Monica and their two daughters, living in a home not handicapped accessible made life even more difficult.

“We are in desperate need of these renovations to our home to make it livable to make our lives normal, “explained Joe.

Joe played high school football at Loyola and collegiately at Towson University, but during his playing days he had no way of knowing that the football he played would be the tie that binds his recovery and coping with the paralysis that he now faces.

“In the spring before my senior year, dislocated hip, fractured pelvis, I didn’t get a chance to play football anymore. And I’m the poster child for you’d better get everything you can get out of it right now, because it can be taken away from you in a heartbeat,” said Rob Ambrose, football coach at Towson University.

Rob got in touch with Reservoir High School football coach Rick Trott, who got in touch with friend Willis McGahee, who got in touch with area realtors. This link will do a makeover on Joe’s home to make it accessible to his needs.

“They’ll see their daddy not confined to a medical bed or a wheelchair, they’ll see daddy in a wide open space interacting with them,” said Joe.

NFL Player Willis McGahee, Towson University Head Coach Rob Ambrose and Reservoir High School Coach Rick Trott band together to find assistance for a local family struck by tragedy.

BALTIMORE SEPTEMBER 20, 2010 As a former Towson University football player and U.S. Marine, Joe Sclafani, Jr. would never have seen this coming. Unexpectedly and without explanation, the C5/C6 disk bulged and compressed Joe’s spinal cord. During surgery, his doctor found another obstacle, an infectious abscess that had encapsulated itself into his spinal cord as well. The pressure from both the disk and abscess resulted in Sclafani becoming a quadriplegic.

Although they live in a ranch-style house, Joe can only access 20% of the house on his own. He cannot access his daughter’s bedrooms to read to them, kiss them goodnight, or play with them due to the size of the hallway and the entrance sizes of their rooms. Since the master bedroom door was widened, Joe can access it; however, in order to fit the lift needed to move Joe and necessary medical supplies, he and his wife, Monica sleep in separate single beds and their dressers and clothes are kept in the garage. The one bathroom in the house is not accessible with an ever smaller entrance than the girls’ rooms. Joe has not been able to feel running water since October. He gets “bird baths” every day lying in bed.

The Sclafani house needs some modifications and a modest addition to create a handicapped- accessible house that would change the quality of their lives and assist Joe with being more independent. Joe and Monica had thought about making some renovations to their house but the money they receive from disability is not enough to pay their current monthly bills.

Rick Trott, who currently coaches football at Reservoir High School, received an email from his old college football coach, Rob Ambrose, the Head Coach at Towson University. The email from Ambrose which spoke of Sclafani and his situation, was sent to the football alum of TU imploring them to find a way to help a “brother” in need and thus a chain of events began that would change the Sclafani’s lives.

Trott had never met the man that was described in the email. Sclafani had left TU a year before Trott ever stepped on the field there. Still, the letter spoke to him and he knew he had to do something. Trott called his neighbor and friend, NFL player Willis McGahee to come up with a plan to help. McGahee knew exactly who the next call should go out to. Almost immediately upon arriving in Baltimore McGahee wanted to give back to the community and knowing that area Realtors are always in touch with neighborhood and communities, a partnership between the running back and the local Realtor Association was formed. He knew they could help. A call was placed, a few emails exchanged, and within a couple weeks, the Sclafani family was contacted by the Maryland Partnership for Housing Foundation who administer the program Maryland Home Makeover, a spinoff of NBC’s popular television show, Extreme Home Makeover. The news was just what the family had been wishing for. They would become the recipients of a brand new addition to their home which would be outfitted with handicap accessibilities the Sclafani family could only dream of.

“The Realtors are in touch with the needs of the community at a grassroots level on a daily basis,” says McGahee, “and my partnership with them has been invaluable in helping a ton of local families just like Joe’s.”

“The brotherhood of football is a bond that only those who have played can truly understand its depth,” remarks Ambrose, “In my career there have been numerous prideful moments both as a player and a coach but the outpouring of support for the Sclafani family and the active participation by those in the larger football family is, in a word, awesome.” Trott adds, “When my college football career was cut short at Towson. Due to an injury Coach Ambrose kept me around and taught me the coaching trade. I made a promise then that if I ever had the chance to repay him I would. When he sent the email about Joe’s situation I knew exactly who I could call to help.”

MEDIA OPPORTUNITY

The kick-off rally for the Home Makeover will be held at 11:00 am on Tuesday, September 21st at St. Matthews Lutheran Church, 1200 Churchville Road, Bel Air, MD 21014 in the “Great Room”. Willis McGahee, Rob Ambrose, Rick Trott and members of the Partnership for Housing Foundation will be in attendance.

Contact: Deb Poquette
(410)340-3569
Deb@tccse.com


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